Sex Jealousy

Did the title of this post catch your eye? Intrigue you perhaps? It’s caught my attention too. Let me explain…

Lately it seems like a lot more people (women) have been major whores. And I’m going to provide you with a concrete example. Since the age of 4 or 5 my sister and I have been best friends with the “kids across the street”. The oldest, D, a boy, was my age. K, another boy was a year younger than us, then there was my sister and then there was M, a girl, one year younger than my sister. For as long as I can remember we always built forts, camped in tents, went sledding, biked to the library and well, pretty much did everything together. That is until about high school. I remember one of our last camp outs was my the summer before my junior year of high school. After that, hang outs started to become few and far between. Not because we had grown apart but because we were starting to get jobs and the homework and whatnot got harder. Still, I always considered D and M among my close friends.

Let’s fast forward a little bit….actually, let’s fast forward to now. So after my high school sweetheart and I broke up after my freshman year of college he started dating another girl. This girl happened to be best friends with M. Ok, that’s not really cool but nothing that I can do about it so whatever. It only ever became a problem when M would text me telling me about them or asking me if he ever cheated on me. A little over a year later they broke up. Meanwhile, there had been a girl that had gone to school with us, K, that had always had a crush on him. Now, while they never had sex, they did share a kiss. Whatever, I’ll let that go. Fast forward to now and K and M are really good friends. Now, I’m not sure what’s been going on in M’s mind the whole time, but somehow she gets it in to her head that she too should try to have sex with my ex. WTF?? I’m trying to figure out who does this. Or why someone would want to do this to begin with. Do you really want to sleep with someone that 3 of your supposedly close friends had sex with?

Someone needs to enlighten me because I’m seriously so confused. I don’t even want to be with someone if they have been with someone I know let along someone I was/used to be close friends with. Is it that all her friends had him and she didn’t want to be left out? Was it because he’s that great of a guy or something? I know I don’t really have any right to be upset about this but it’s weird. Seriously, who does this?

To me, this is trashy. Do you really want your friend’s leftovers? Because I know I certainly don’t. And I don’t think any higher of you and it really doesn’t make me want to rekindle our friendship. You’re gross. And I think you’re a whore.

xoxo